This is something that a lot of people go through on a regular basis. When you have been single for a long time, you might find it tough to get back into the dating game. This might make you feel like there is no hope for you at all, but there is no reason to fret! You should take a break from trying to get a date and try to improve yourself, and when you get back into it you would be surprised at just how easy it is for you to make the most of your newfound attractiveness.
Before anything else, you need to start exercising. Nothing is going to attract a girl more than a man who looks really fit and toned. There really is no such thing as an unattractive person, if you are fit and toned you would be attractive to pretty much any member of the opposite sex. The problem here is that gym memberships end up costing quite a bit of money, and it takes so much effort to go to the gym after a long, hard day at work that you might end up avoiding it entirely by making up an excuse.
Here you have the single biggest reason why people end up failing to reach their goal weight time and time again, and if you want to stop this from happening to you there is a very simple solution: just create a workout space for yourself at home. Get yourself an exercise bike and some weights and get to it. Just ten to twenty minutes on an exercise bike every day can help you to get a flat stomach and some nice, toned muscles. This is all you need to start getting dates!